A stay-at-home Mormon Mom, raising a small Eurasian family, crafting and sewing when the mood strikes her, and loving every minute of it!
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Sleeping Princesses
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Goldfish for Breakfast
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Thursday, November 7, 2013
Homework Drama, and a Day of Doctor Visits
Another day, another story. I realized today, for the umpteen millionth time, that when we have interesting stories we want to preserve...we have absolutely zero time in which to write them down.
Right now, I am in a beautiful sort of hazy middle ground. There are no major holidays taking place as I type this. No new lives being created, or ending. No major milestones. Just life, progressing as it ought to. And that is lovely in itself.
Baby Ying Ying is 9 months old now. This has always been my favorite age for babies - fat, happy, not yet able to run away, and as of yet unable to argue with their parents. At least not verbally. Baby YY is no exception. At her check up today, she weighed in at 22 pounds and 29 inches. She charms people everywhere she goes. Two days ago, she learned to wave, and it is absolutely precious. Of course, I am biased, but even complete strangers are charmed by a chubby, grinning, nearly-bald baby waving at them. I don't care who you are - when a toddler waves, you wave back, and you do it with a smile.
Today was a rather busy day. I woke up and felt nearly intoxicated - I realized it was 7 am and my baby had skipped her 3-4am feeding. I had slept a solid 6 hours, and I couldn't remember the last time that had happened. Hooray! (My husband later informed me that the baby most likely HAD woken up, but it didn't rouse me. Apparently, it didn't sound urgent enough to truly rouse him, either. He only remembers glancing at the clock and going back to sleep.) Shower for me, breakfast for the kiddos. We got Ming Wai off to school and then had to run back home so Siu Jeun and Ying Ying could eat their breakfasts. 20 minutes later, we were back in the car and heading down the hill to the doctor's office. Siu Jeun had an appointment for his flu shot.
That appointment very nearly went catastrophic. My big kids had discussed the merits of flu shots, and flu "doses" (nasal sprays) for days, and both decided that they absolutely wanted the "dose." So, when the nurse brought in a sharp kit and asked if he wanted his flu vaccine in his thigh or in his arm, his eyes got huge, and he swiveled his head to stare at me. "Um, he really wanted the nasal spray this year." "Oh, I'm sorry! We are all out. So - arm or thigh?" It became apparent that it would need to be thigh, as that was the option you take when a child is going to need to be restrained to receive their shots. A second nurse was called in, and SJ was starting to get really worried. As she scrubbed her hands, she asked, "So, why aren't we just doing the nasal dose?" Apparently, they were out yesterday. Today, they had four boxes!
Crisis averted.
Sharp kit put away, nasal dose brought in. *pfft* *sniff* *pfft* *sniff* Boom. Bam. Take your lollipop and sticker and get out of here, kid! I had a little chat with the nurse, and she winked and agreed to hide one dose of the nasal spray for me - Ming Wai's flu shot was scheduled for that afternoon, and her reactions to needles are fairly epic.
After that, it was time to run some errands in that part of town. A top returned to Nordstrom Rack that, tragically, didn't fit the birthday girl I bought it for. Curtains returned to Target that, sadly, don't fit my freakishly large windows. I took the kids to the children's museum after that, until it became obvious that Baby Ying Ying was badly in need of a nap.
Back to the car, a quick snack for the baby, and then we drove home. I transferred her to her crib, and had some alone time with Siu Jeun. We had lunch, and I started a batch of cinnamon chips and dough to make cinnamon chip bread. Baby woke up, had her lunch, and then we loaded up the car to take Siu Jeun to school.
Funny thing, though - when we pulled up to the school (i.e. Grandma's House), nobody was home. I suppose I should have read this week's schedule more carefully, eh? I called my sister, who had obviously READ her calendar correctly and was still at home shuffling her kids through lunch and morning chores. "Hey, why don't you come down and see us?" A few thoughts flashed through my head...there was a pot of cold mac and cheese on the stove. Bread rising in a bowl on the counter. Baby Ying Ying still needed more lunch. " Uh, ok!" Aunt Myrnie produced a banana and some rice and beans for Baby Ying Ying, Siu Jeun disappeared to the basement to play with his cousins, and I enjoyed a few minutes of adult conversation with my sister. A winning afternoon!
At 2:30, it was time to get back up the hill to grab Ming Wai from school. We stopped by the house to punch the bread down - it had traveled out of the bowl and was inching across my counter. Oh well - two rises is good for yeast breads, right? No time for it now - we had to go! The kids got a well-earned trip to the library, where Siu Jeun proceeded to grab 17 books about tractors, trucks and "how things work", and then off to the doctor again. This time, it was time for the two sisters to have their Well Child Checkup. We got the appointments back to back, which was kind of entertaining. Siu Jeun sat patiently in a chair looking at his 17 books. Ming Wai took off down the hall with a nurse to get her stats taken while Ying Ying and I went down a different hall to get her stats taken. We all met back in the exam room where the doctor took turns checking out both my beautiful girls. She has a daughter who is just a few weeks older than Ying Ying, so we always have fun checking in with each other. Neither of our daughters are sleeping through the night, mine has learned to "cruise" remarkably early, and hers still hates her carseat. Same ol', same ol'.
(Official stats, for posterity - Baby Ying Ying, 9 months, is 2'5", 22 pounds, and has a head circumference of 43.8 centimeters. Ming Wai, 7, is 4' even and weighs 52 pounds.)
The nurses came back in for the flu vaccines. Siu Jeun's nurse came through for us, and Ming Wai had her precious flu "dose." Aside from accidentally blowing half of the dose OUT of her nose and onto the nurse, she did very well. Baby Ying Ying was distracted by a pen I was holding and didn't even notice the poke for hers. Apparently, babies with ample thighs are like that. Heh.
Home for dinner, baking those loaves of bread (which turned out delicious, by the way), some homework for Ming Wai, and bedtime.
Homework tonight was...exciting. I KNOW that Ming Wai needs to do her homework early in the day, but it just didn't happen this week. I taught piano every afternoon this week, and we had the doctor's appointment today. She has a project due tomorrow, so it was tonight or nothing. Highlights of the evening included: Sentences that took between 5 and 10 minutes, each, to write. A complete melt down over a sun that came out square instead of round. A face plant onto the table and the child yelling, "I will just go live somewhere ELSE!" Her first threat to run away from home? Perhaps other homes don't have homework as stressful as drawing thank you posters for veterans.
I sat next to her and spoke in soothing tones, while I helped to color in the large expanse of blank space that had been left to be the blue sky. The square sun had been replaced by a round one, drawn from a stencil in her art kit. The purple line really just looked like an arm of the person next to it, and maybe nobody would notice that person now had one arm too many? After some training from me in the fine art of stick-figure drawing, all the girls had on dresses, and the boys had on pants. She calmed down.
10 minutes later, as she lovingly smoothed the last little glob of glitter onto her creation, she sighed. "It's beautiful, Mommy. I love it."
Drama, oh drama, they name is a 7 year old too close to bedtime.
Sunday, September 29, 2013
Ming Wait Turned 7!
Tuesday, June 18, 2013
Last Day of Kindergarten!
Friday, June 7, 2013
My Least Favorite Milestone (and we had a recital last night!)
Friday, March 29, 2013
Sisters
Ying Ying has developed a fondness for her big sister. I think the feeling is mutual. Ming Wai takes her responsibilities very seriously, often abandoning meals or homework or chores to rush to her sister's side when she starts to fuss. It just reminds me what I should have already firmly planted in my brain - bringing a baby home isn't Bringing My Baby Home. Once I gave birth to Baby, she became His Daughter, and Her Sister, and His Sister, and Her Niece, and Their Granddaughter, and a million other things.
Here's hoping these two can always remain friends!
Monday, March 7, 2011
Getting To Know You
Every day, I am learning more about my kids. More about their personalities, and more about what makes them tick. Both of my kids love sweets…and always have. I’m not surprised, because I never met a dessert that I was too full to at least try. There is ALWAYS room for dessert, and everything deserves a nibble.
Which is why I was so surprised the other day by Ming Wai. We had eaten dinner, and I gave both the kids a cupcake as a treat for being good. (Daddy was out of town, and the days are always super long when that happens…and very deserving of cupcakes.) She worked on it for a while while I cleared the dishes. I noticed that there were still a few pieces of broccoli in the serving dish on the table. “Honey, do you want to finish the broccoli?” “Yeah!!” The cupcake lay forgotten as she carefully fished out the cold broccoli to eat. She then asked if she could drink the “soup” (the bit of sauce-y water that had collected on the bottom of the bowl). “Umm…sure, hon.” And down the hatch it went.
She never did get back to that cupcake.
Tuesday, December 14, 2010
2010 Santa Pictures
(I know things were quiet around here yesterday. We were celebrating Siu Jeun’s 2nd birthday with a huge Dorie Greenspan chocolate cake, several sheet pans full of sushi, and a few bowls full of dumplings. *erp* Is it just my family that centers all celebrations around what we will EAT?! I love it! Just a “family gathering” around these parts will pull in 12-14 people, so planning the meal is usually a major part of the preparations!)
Now. On to Santa.
“I …can’t…hold on…much…longer!!” ~Santa That suit was slippery!
Needless to say, Santa will not be featured on our Christmas cards this year.
I did tell her that just by walking up to him, Santa magically knew what she wanted for Christmas. I’m not completely cruel.
(Check out that face on Ming Wai, though. She’s honestly and truly scared. I was really and truly tempted to tell her that she’d met Santa before…before he had a beard!)
(These were snapped by my lovely sister at our church Christmas party last weekend.)
Thursday, October 14, 2010
Ming Wai, Singing Diva!
Because it’s Thursday, because my son is still running around in a diaper, because I have a goal to post more often on this blog, and because I can….I present- Ming Wai, singing diva!
Tuesday, October 12, 2010
Ming Wai is 4. Again.
Long live traditions that involve more! cake!
Ming Wai is no exception to this rule. I proudly present…her third (4th) birthday.
I just barely wrestled her into this coat. She’s dead set against putting anything on her body that might not be the right size. Even if it is. It might not be. And this coat? Was sized large, to grow into.
(Who was the photographer on these shots??!)
Moving on. Ming Wai adores Tinkerbell…and Grandma did not disappoint. Hello, Tinkerbell tea set with a million-tiny-pieces. There's a tea set for you, and a tea set for Tinkerbell and her cronies…complete with pinkie nail sized leaf “plates”. (Siu Jeun was, and is, mighty interested in something that involves that many brightly colored, and tiny, pieces.
Nothing like a little Dr. Seuss to brighten up a birthday…unless it’s a lot of Dr. Seuss!
And…oh dear. How do I explain this. Have you seen the newest collectible fad – tiny non-working erasers in the shape of…everything? Ming Wai started collecting them last Christmas, and has about a dozen. These erasers range from soccer balls to elaborate cakes to entire kitchen sets, including a range, frying pay, egg and spatula.
I should say had about a dozen. Now? She has a dozen…plus one hundred. Thanks, Grandma. *Grin*
One of the Uncles Dude (Siu Jeun’s got three of them) was lending a hand during the present opening and keeping Siu Jeun occupied. Eventually, though, Uncle Dude ran out of tricks, and simple started to occupy himself. Siu Jeun was an unfortunate part of this scheme…and I can’t decide if the Hunchback, or the Barrel Chest is my favorite look for him!
Note to self: a Strong Man costume is a definite, and EASY, possibility for this kid.
A few candid shots of the party goers…
Hi, Poppy and Grandma!
Whaddup, Auntie Bert and Uncle Bear?! (My two youngest siblings.)
(You know, I think Bert gives Bear that look quite often…)
And finally – The Cake. Miss Ming Wai was very definite on her birthday cake. Several weeks before her birthday, she began telling people that she was going to have a chocolate cake, with gummy bears on top. (She also wanted cherries, but back then cherries were actually in season. By the time her birthday rolled around, she hadn’t seen a cherry in weeks, and had thankfully forgotten all about that stipulation.)
A chocolate cake with gummy bears on top is easy. Making it LoLo style, and big enough to feed a hungry group of 15? That proved a bit more challenging.
Obviously.
I used this recipe, with a normal shortening/sugar buttercream. (Think those nasty gloppy roses on bakery cakes. It’s not ideal, but it’s quick, sticky and lactose free. All plusses!) The outside of the cake is frosted with ganache, which I realize negates any non-dairyness from the buttercream frosting…but the frosting was actually leftover from an earlier birthday cake, so whaddaya gonna do, eh?
I made the cake recipe twice, in three cake pans each time, to make a six layer cake. I got distracted somewhere in the middle, and forgot to level off one of the cakes…which meant that I got a really Wonky Cake.
Eh. Oh well. Birthday girls don’t mind, as long as there are plenty of gummy bears!
Friday, October 1, 2010
LoLoCation: GWL – Dancing Superstar!
Among the other delights at the Great Wolf Lodge, there was an arcade. We loved it for the kiddos, because Siu Jeun doesn’t really care about actually putting money in the machines. He just likes the bright lights!
At one point, Siu Jeun and I got separated from Ming Wai and Lo Gung. As I wandered through the various beeping and blinking machines, following Siu Jeun, his attention was suddenly drawn to a great big DDR machine. (DDR = Dance Dance Revolution, a game where you dance on a big metal mat, following directions on the screen.) “Ooooh…..!”
Up he got, and away he danced! Carefully stepping on the arrows, and then back to center to groove. At one point, he looked around, pointed to the screen and yelled, “Daddy!!” I assume he wanted to show his Dad his new discovery.
As soon as I could round up Lo Gung (and the Flip camera!) we stuck the kids back on and sat back to enjoy the show.
And, because I love you, and because it’s cute, and because I want to…here ya go. Enjoy! Happy Friday, y’all. (Debbie, make sure you turn your speakers on!)
(Oh, and I know it looks like we fed Siu Jeun the radioactive jelly beans...but we didn't. The arcade is full of black lights. Just so you know. Carry on.)
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
Happy Birthday, Ming Wai!
Someone just turned 4. And she’s pretty excited about it.
(We’ve got a photobomb. BOOM.)
She got to sit in our new (to us) Princess Chair and open her pile of shiny gifts. (The chair was a garage sale find last weekend. $20, y’all. Just a few light scratches on the wooden legs. Be still my Cheapy Cheap-o heart! Cheap, AND Chinese print?! I may have done a back flip when I found it in someone’s driveway. Maybe.)
She loves opening gifts. We thought we knew which would be her favorite – the new TinkerBell movie! When she opened it, Lo Gung asked, “Do you like it???” “No.” came her cool reply. “It’s scary.”
*blink blink*
Well, then. Alright.
However, she LOVED this book from Gu Jeh, her auntie. It’s kind of like Where’s Waldo, except for you’re looking for 8-12 items on each page that the page’s Princess has lost. When I tucked her in for the night, and shut the door to her room, I could still hear her. “Where’s the pumpkin….there it is! Where’s Fairy Godmother’s magic wand….there it is!”
After presents, it was time for cake. Lo Gung decided it was high time to introduce her to the wonders of the Ice Cream Cake. (However, this might be the last time she has a store bought ice cream cake from us. For what we paid for it, I could have made two or three of them at home!)
Girl, you haven’t aged a bit!
(No, really. Check it out.)
This one is from her third birthday. A year ago. Is it just me, or is this like the Girl that Time Forgot?!
Happy birthday, Ming Wai!
(We spent the first half of the day “on vacation”, which I’ll tell you about later. Soon. Ming Wai’s birthday dinner was all her favorites – white rice with soy sauce, sliced cucumbers in sweet chili sauce, watermelon rind pickles, cheung fun (a sort of a Chinese noodle thing) and steamed broccoli with oyster sauce. Girl knows what she likes.)
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Ming Wai, the Model
The other day I carved out a few minutes (ok, an hour) and
Then, I asked her to model it.
This is what I got.
“Pose, Ming Wai!”
And…BAM. Fancy Hands. Man, I love this girl!
Of course, Siu Jeun wanted in on the action. Unfortunately, he doesn’t so much Strike a Pose as he does…let the pose just sort of wash through him.
He even tried to copy her Fancy Hands.
Sorry, dude. It just doesn’t have the same effect. But you’re awfully cute, all the same. And maybe if I learn to make something other than PJ pants and dresses, you can have some new clothes to model, too.





